Tips to bond with your child - How about bonding with your child? If you are one of those father's who have very little time to spend with your child, here are a few tips to keep in mind.
Control your anger
Parents usually try to justify treating their children badly (shouting at them, insulting them and in some cases, even hitting them for their mistakes) by saying, "That's how I was raised and I turned out alright." This kind of defence is normally used by the angry and power-hungry adult. Only emotionally irresponsible adults act in this fashion.
Always be ready to listen
This is one of the most important skills that you need to hone, if you wish to build and then sustain a meaningful, healthy and happy relationship with your child. You can win the trust and love of your child forever if you just lend an empathetic ear to your child. Never assume that children's feelings are less important than those of adults.
Prioritise the relationship
Reorganise your list of priorities. Make sure your relationship with your child is there at the top of the list. When a parent focusses on relating to the child on the basis of who he/she is, rather than on what he/she should be, the bond between the two is likely to be stronger.
Control your anger
Parents usually try to justify treating their children badly (shouting at them, insulting them and in some cases, even hitting them for their mistakes) by saying, "That's how I was raised and I turned out alright." This kind of defence is normally used by the angry and power-hungry adult. Only emotionally irresponsible adults act in this fashion.
Always be ready to listen
This is one of the most important skills that you need to hone, if you wish to build and then sustain a meaningful, healthy and happy relationship with your child. You can win the trust and love of your child forever if you just lend an empathetic ear to your child. Never assume that children's feelings are less important than those of adults.
Prioritise the relationship
Reorganise your list of priorities. Make sure your relationship with your child is there at the top of the list. When a parent focusses on relating to the child on the basis of who he/she is, rather than on what he/she should be, the bond between the two is likely to be stronger.
Tips to bond with your child
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